Sarah, after 25yearsmlc whole post above, I swear she is talking about my H. Every word she says sounds like my sitch, other than the WAH doing financial planning. My H is horrible with money. Which is exactly why I'm working on contingency plan to replace his payments to me, as I don't know how long they'll last.
My H is classic basic narcissist, and I refused to see it for 22 years. As I told my brother last night, I can see pieces of him right now over the last 20 years, but now it's 100 times more extreme. I often wonder if there's something wrong in the brains of people that do this sort of thing to those they say they love. Do they simply lack self-disciplin and will power, or is it deeper, more chemical?
Be careful. Tread lightly. As artista says above, move FORWARD, once you are apart you can take you time to decide what you want to do.
Me-44,H-44 S21,S19,S17,D13 M-22,T-29 (off and on prior to M) BD:12-20-17 (H said he had things to work out in his head) H moved out:3-4-18
