Battling cancer while dealing with MLC

[peacetoday]

you may not see it..
especially because he is far away

It may take time..
You may see a little crazy behavior here and there

Most MLCers have similar traits but may be slightly different
On the outside my XH OW seemed attractive, smart ect..(I never met her but my brother worked with her)..
She was XH secretary ..In the beginning I would compare myself to her--I thought
she must be better than me ect..
until years later..My XMIL told me OW was on drugs-crazy and XH family had banned her from any gatherings and they were M then
I also heard she was a drug addict and her D and her parents were addicts also..
Not a happy picture-
they are now Divorced

as hard as it is, job is right, got to find a way to let him go
and focus on you-
You will see and hear more later-about him-\
rarely do we see MLCer leaving to create better more productive and happy lives
Usually, they loose everything and the Relationships rarely stick more than a few years-