Hi Artista Must have missed your most welcome update request as there's been some awesome stuff on here of late. I had decided not to post anything until something major had changed as I do tend to "journal" about the tiniest of minutiae!! As can be seen from my tag I am in self-imposed limbo. We are getting on just great and are still "fully intimate" although I have always accepted all such things can occur within cake eating! In essence I exist within Sandi "detached observational mode" and feel strong this way. When the IC discharged me she said I was indeed stronger than I thought and should be able to handle any lingering sitch for D's sake. She has her first communion approaching and is really into the whole thing. So if a final chapter is indeed approaching I will hopefully be ready for it. I am just appearing to be the good/strong guy without overnicing things. But the fact remains she works with the OM and does not want to leave her job (at least at the time of the confrontation last year l). She had a landmark birthday last week and it has not gone unnoticed that only one signature on her work card had a "x" after it.
Take care
Me 55, W 50 D 8 M 20 T 27 MIL w/ us BD 01/02/17 workplace A (12/09/16, EA -> PA) OM senior manager, long term W, child 14 now: limbo (my choice)
"Don't care what you may do, we got that attitude!" - Bad Brains