Re: Moving on - I really see the value in that from the beginning, but as Gordie said, it's so hard to do that in the moment when everything is spiraling out of control. I personally think that moving forward is the best option and DB really gets you moving in that direction, but it takes time to get there mentally.
once that confidence comes back and your self-esteem is up, things start to happen. Changes happen gradually and I am seeing my social network slowly expand as I take more opportunities to meet people and create some opportunities as well. In the past, I wouldn't have done that at all.
Anyways, moving on is the best option because until you really let go, nothing will happen - either for yourself, or in the case of the WW/WH wanting to attempt recon.
