Hi Lady V, take the ' night visitor ' veey seriously, as others have said you don't need to be told that and im so glad to see ypu have taken measures to protect yourself. That is very unpleasant and unnerving. Please be vigilant.
As to the weight thing , i agree with others that 7lbs isn't much. If however it makes a difference to your feelings regarding yourself then go for it and get rid. I know your an attractive lady but it sometimes matters not what others think but how we perceive ourselves.
I am delighted to hear about your dates and watch out for those people just looking for sex , ( their great !!!)
Extra , extra vigilance, G is a berk and I ( among plenty.of others on here no doubt ) would have to fly over and 'explain'and few things to him.
