Hi Gordie
Glad your W is warming up. Still go slow

On your nightmares, I had those too for at least 2 years. I saw it more as fights we never had. After BD I was dazed and focussed on the kids. Didn’t have a chance to argue and besides what she was selling made no sense. So in my dreams I told her what I wanted to but never did.

Funny just reading your post today on her never apologizing or breaking the ice first. I too , like you and I think many have said it here we’re always the one to step forward and fix things . While they sweep it under the rug like it never happened.

I see that as a character flaw and in MLC is enhanced.

Take care buddy
I’m still rooting for you


M51
XW43 (38 at bd)
BD1 MAY 30 2015
BD2 JUNE 25 2015 by text
moved out Aug 2 2015
left both Daughters 13 and 15 (now 18-20)
Her divorce Final July 26 2016
Last time she saw her kids Aug 2 2015