You have had a long journey and are inspiration to me about how to let go, have no expectations, and to take care of the kids.
Your last line about taking the pressure off yourself is awesome.
I can sense that inner peace in your posts.
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving