I absorbed the G criticism when he was as overweight as me.
I suspect it's usual in some sitches.
It was for me. My X was always overweight. "Extra curvy" I would sometimes call it. When we met I was pretty fit - able to wear a cropped off shirt (it was the 80s) with pride. She would regularly tease me at the beginning, calling me "doughnut boy". As time and poor choices passed we both got a lot heavier. She was 190lbs at 4' 11" at one point and I was 275 at just under 6' She would regularly comment on my being fat and openly worry about my health while bragging about how healthy she was. She had mobility issues because of her weight, fibromialgia and varicose veins the size of small ropes all over her legs.
I think many people don't see themselves but project their own issues on others.
The ghostly visitation is a bit scary. I'm glad you've taken steps to be safe. Be careful out there.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells
