You did the right thing by informing her of your daughter's scan. I do hope you and your daughter received some good news tomorrow.
I agree, the bag of movie reels should be in her possession.
The little bit of contact you had w/her may have brightened her day just a wee bit. I do hope that, in time, she will open up a bit and want to make some steps towards being w/her daughters. It's going to take some time, but if you continue to send her updates, etc., she just might feel comfortable enough to actually reach out to them.
Keeping you and your daughter in my thoughts and prayers that tomorrow will bring good news.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
