Great to hear from you. I understand taking a break from the board. That’s healthy too. So reading through your post:
W still seems undecided if she wants to be M or not.
She doesn’t want you looking at her phone.
She wants to come and go as she pleases without telling you.
She is text flirting with other guys.
This does not sound like a woman who is working on her M.
Is this okay with you or not?
If okay, then take all pressure off. No R talks. Just live your own life as if she is not your wife, just the mother of your child. A roommate. An extended family member with whom you are not close. Give her a lot of space and time to think. This is where I am now.
What is your boundary? What would make you say you are not okay wth this?
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving
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Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
