Thx guys, it's a good feeling to get my life back on tract..
Doodler, the boat may or may not end up in the living room, although I'm looking at getting my third boat, so I don't know how I'll choose which one to let in. But more importantly, the question is if I'll paint the front columns as barber poles and get dancers to cut hair :-)
M - 9 1/2 years 5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA 10/31/16 - We sold house 01/10/18 - D Finalized