waw maybe #3

[bhappy2]

Updating:

After a full month of legit DB I can now tell how I was doing things wrong. I see how the benefit is for me and I should not be looking for reacions from my W. I am not mean or cold I just do not go out of my way to interact with her. I am finally following Sandi's rules.

Now for some interesting stuff, on Saturday I was not able to do my laundry when I got home from work. No big deal I was going to do it when I woke up... BUT instead my W did it for me, she has not done my laundry in over two years. It wasnt like she needed the washer either mine were the only clothes in the laundry room. I first questioned my children to see if anyone did it for me and S22 told me that W did it.

I also ran out of ant-acid pills, W went out and bought them for me. She really has not done anything for me so this was a bit unusual. I make nothing of it and have not said a word to her at all.

I spoke with my Lawyer and she stated that W's lawyer is an idiot and will not return calls or emails, said its very unprofessional. She asked if I want to press the issue and I said no let them proceed. She said ok, no prob...

Went out Sat night for St.paddys day and had a blast, ended up hanging out with a woman at the party that I have known for about 5 years and she told me that she had always liked me but bc I was married she never said anything. I said well as you know i am going through a D and things were in limbo, she said sorry to hear and we chatted more then she kissed me. Yes it was great and yes it was new and felt awesome but weird. She wants to go out and I said I wasnt sure if I could do that.

We drank some more and did some shots and towards the end of the night she ends up falling down and splitting her lip. I take her to the hosp. and she needed ten stiches. 3 hours later I finally get home... ugh it was a long night, I texted her the next day to she if she was ok and she text back thanking me for staying with her.

I am starting to feel like there is life after D.!!!