I sometimes wish I could see some MLC crazy from my H so I could really believe he's in MLC.
At the beginning he ticked all the MLC boxes, but now he just seems like he's erased me. He doesn't do a lot of "typical" MLC things. He's just gone and doesn't contact me. He doesn't seem to crave attention, good or bad. His OW seems mostly normal - obviously has some flaws or she wouldn't have been an OW. She has 3 kids and she left her H for my H, but she doesn't appear crazy or personality disordered. She's 2 years younger than H and went to high school with him.
She posts publicly on her social media (I have her blocked but still managed to see a few things here and there.) She was the one who announced their relationship on her Facebook page, after he'd lived there with her for about 8 months. She wrote that she "thought it was time." He keeps his locked down. His profile pic is an old black and white pic of his deceased father.
Seems like she fawns all over him like he's some kind of god. Meanwhile, for the past year he's been known to direct tweet a specific woman who is a very, very, very minor local media figure as if he's desperate for her attention. (She never acknowledges him back.)
Anyway, he's living so far away and we have NC so I don't see any depression, confusion or anything to remind me that he's in crisis. So it's easy to feel like he just doesn't care about me at all anymore.
