Hey J! Yehhh.. she's more like - I am super pissed off at M for everything that went wrong in the MR and it is totally his fault and he is the whole reason for my unhappiness and misery.
I feel like anything I will say or suggest will be taken the wrong way and so that's why I am hesitating to bring it up. But, at the same time, her behaviour is not helping the situation when we have to interact in-person with the kids. The kids are old enough to see the dynamics.
Last time she just avoided me in the public place for as long as possible and then she barely managed to say hi with a glare of death. I was positive and happy and didn't let her anger and mood throw me off my game. But kids saw all of that and I don't think it's helping the situation.
I think I might take the co-parenting course just for myself and see if it is useful for how I parent. But maybe suggesting to her right now is not the best option.
