Wife wont admit to affair, its driving me nuts! 2

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Sandi said

You being Mr. Nice Guy contributed (in part) to the downfall in your MR. She has been guilty of terrible things, that's undisputed. My concern is for your future. Please learn about the Nice Guy Syndrome and how to change some of those ways of thinking.

I dont know what I was thinking. I'm genuinely scared for her future though, her mental well being, her drinking, mainly because I want her to be there for our daughters. They need both of us.
Although it may not seem like it, I really feel a lot better overall, due to GAL'ing. I have lots of good friends and goals I'm working on. She just pulls me back into her madness occasionally. I recognize it now and its getting less frequent.

I only made this post because it was the first time in 2 months anything actually happened between NC and just our co-parenting duties.

I met W's BFF and husband and had a great time with my girls and god daughter. I made a beautiful home cooked meal and they were really impressed with my home and what I'm doing. We talked a little bit about W but even BFF has only seen her twice since Christmas. I said
a few things , proven things, real facts(that W cant dispute) and put them out there and why I did what I did. I'm sure BFF may tell W this but I dont regret anything.
I even said(and meant it) for BFF to look after W, check in with her occasionally.

Just looking forward to the future now. Lots of good things happening!
W is missing out. She's lost a good man, lost my family(which was a huge support), all my good solid friends, but its all on her. The penny will drop eventually :_)