First let me say that I think your post up above about your boiling point with H is something that needed to happen. It's not something suggested in DB'ing, but when you're dealing with the worst kind of cake-eating WAH like you are then you've absolutely got to draw a line in the sand or it'll just go on forever. He MUST feel he will lose you before anything will change, and if you sit around letting that sitch continue then he will be happy to keep right on cake-eating. So don't beat yourself up, I think it needed to happen and it sounds like you handled it well enough. Sounds like you were firm without being overly angry towards him. It takes a lot of strength to do what you did, you should feel good about it!
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Originally Posted By: 2surviv
And so it goes.....received a text today asking if I received his email from last week (received 2 last week ) and if I did I obviously am choosing not to respond and if I didn't could I let him know so that he can resend it. Guess what - I haven't responded - this NC is keeping me sane - am I being cruel for feeling this way????
THAT IS NOT CRUEL!!! The whole idea of NC IS to keep you sane! It takes you off his crazy roller coaster ride. You are doing the right thing, just keep ignoring his ridiculous texts. All he's doing is damage control, he's trying to bring you back in line as Plan B. HOLD YOUR GROUND. If anything just send him something extremely short like "message received".
I know this all hurts and is confusing, but you are taking the right approach. You got his attention and that's why he keeps texting.
