Thanks everyone for the input.....I thought about and I am not going to do a thing. I see signs but nothing over the top that would indicate her mind has changed. We were going over finances today and she is very happy with how much she is going to be getting and made a comment about how awesome it is. I just responded with good, I am a bad man (I handled all of our money and the investing). She responded back with a smiley face (I didn't respond back). So I get little stuff like that but nothing that is going to make me take the first step.

I do agree her respect is coming or has come back but I still think she has a long way to go. Which further affirms that it is more about her than it is about me and what I did or didn't do.

Anyway...after a few weak days I am back on the horse.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018