Re sex, I understand what you are saying in the reverse in that my w has said the same to me. I don’t know if now is the time to address your sex life but I think it must be at some point. She is frustrated because she isn’t getting what she wants. You are frustrated because you aren’t getting what you want. This is a common and bridgeable gap.
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving