It's so wonderful to hear an update from you! Kudos to you on rebuilding your life and for being that rock for your girls.
It's important for those of us still in the muck to know things ease with time. Thanks for taking time to post as I think about you often!
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced