sandi I have no doubt in my mind that there was a hidden agenda behind W leaving...she dangled leaving the home 3 times before actually doing it, and each time the excuse was different. I would plead and beg her (big mistake I know)
I found out about her EA with OM in mid January. She told me he was just a friend and that he was a good listener and that nothing was going on between them. I told her that i would not stand for my wife talking/texting other men to which she responded " I feel at this point in our R that it's ok for me to talk to other men" She moved out 2 weeks later.
Sandi...what i can't wrap my head around is why she cannot be honest about the OM...i cannot prove a PA but i don't doubt that she has cheated on me. These past couple months W has been brutally honest and does not care about hurting my feelings...she has told my she doesn't love me, doesn't care for me, doesn't want to be with me....so then why will she not be honest about her affair when she has said everything else in the book to hurt me?
