You know what I wonder. He knows that I am not emotionally detached. He Knows how much I suffer from his plan to separate. Why does he behave like a totally unempathetic person (he is not), why does he torture me by the way he speaks to me about separation? Normally, we talk to each other friendly. Actually, I did so many 180s that we get along with each other quite better than in the past even if he seems to intentionally ignore this. When it then comes to a separation issue he all of a sudden turns to be cynical. WHY, WHY, WHY? Sometimes I think it is also despair and doubts on his side which makes him so cynical with regard to separation.
