Thanks so much for the advice. I am speaking with my non W state lawyer this week. If I can get the right combination of days/weekends, I think my older kids would be sad but maybe not. We only see each other for a 10 day block, but if I split it out to maybe two long weekends, then I have just slightly less time with older but more time with younger and back in W state more. I feel like I am taking a risk, but somehow by showing more commitment to W and our kids, may help. In fact, W’s mom suggested that last year when M starting breaking down and I asked for advice. Regrettably, yes W was part of the problem in first M to first W. How would you suggest visitation to her agreeing to see older kids when we can no longer cohabitate in same house?
