Bye bye limbo -- it's time for a change

[mleigh4]

Hi Sotto,
Yes I have many issues with MIL, I have for a very long time. She was a big problem in our marriage as H always sided with her, not me, in many different areas, especially parenting.

The only reason I see her is because she picks up S one day a week. They are very close and I don't want to interfere with that. I have to see her because she couldn't handle confirming with me that she got him from school, so now she picks him up from me.

I don't bring up H, she does. And she is just as unemotional and perky about her 3rd divorce as H is about ours. They are a strange breed. I agree it's time to set yet another boundary with her. No more talk of H. The good news is she has to move about 2 hours away because she can't afford this area when she sells her home, which is happening very soon. There will be no more Grammy days. I'm sad for S, but relieved for me.

Thanks for your post Sotto, I do feel positive right now. I am taking healthy steps in the right direction, just a slow mover sometimes.

Have a great Sunday
M