V....I guess at this point in time nothing outside of I think deep in my heart I know she is not ready to have that conversation. While she has shown signs of warming up to me it I don't know that it feels enough for me to initiate a conversation. IDK I guess I need to think about it some more but I see where you are coming from. My mom has suggested the same thing. smile

At the end of the day she would have to be willing to do some work on herself as well. When she first walked out she told me she was broken and would need years of intense therapy to overcome.

When we went out to dinner we sat next to each other (initiated by her) and I did initiate some touching just to test the waters. She didn't pull away, didn't give me dirty looks or acted like it bothered her. However she didn't give me any signs that she wanted it to progress or she wanted anything more.

Warming up...maybe but I don't know about anything else.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018