Hi All, the past two days since I have been back have been a roller coaster. Implementing Sandis rules but I don’t think I’m here enough this week to ask W out for a date. She still basically ignores me unless about the kids. I might try next time I am back in town when she says I can stay at the house. I am now going to change my current custody order so I am in W state more. I hope this improves things and I am willing to take the risk because I’ve been away too long and was not there for her when she needed me. Right now she seems to jaded for me to offer any kind of pursuit behavior. I’ve posted a lot the past few days because so much has occurred between the next time I talk to my DB coach. Please anyone have any suggestions to know if I am on the right track? I am getting the feeling at times my W is showing too little too late.