Quote: As for the tone of the approach, I think it's difficult to strike just the right chord - stating the desire without sounding demanding or needy.
What if you just pick her up and start carrying her to the bedroom? Worst case scenario is she'll say something like "unhand me you scoundrel". Best case it might turn her on. At least it might give the two of you a laugh and lighten things up a bit and it would be very interesting to learn if a bold move like that might work with a LDW. I sometimes think that instead of tip-toeing down the forest path towards your Sleeping Beauty, you HD Prince Charmings need to burn down the f**king forest and ride your white charger for all it's worth. Of course this is based on the assumption that there is nothing inherently different in the sexuality of women who are LD vs. HD.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver