Great that you are helping him and he took the suggestions
I too would help XH if he asked and I am glad MY kids don't see him or have contact because I know he is not doing well-
There definitely comes a time when we as the LBS are done waiting, trying to fix and walking on eggshells but I know most of us would help them if the door opened for that
At this point I would be very happy to see XH get his life together and it would not bother me in the least for him to be in another r..Im just glad he is without OW-
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