Apparently, he sticks to his own side of the story... this is sad but it reinforces that your decision to file was the right one to made.
He is surprised by your stand because that the first time in so many years that you are actually standing to your decision and none of his "R talks" are making you change your mind. His little mind games are not working anymore. His power on you wore off.
Me 52+ WH 57+ Married 20 + Piecing since 2016 (ready to give up...)