Besides I have 7lbs to loose to look much better than I do (with kit off). But still YM35 saw me in a swim costume and was not put off, a big step for me.
V - if all you have to lose is 7 lbs., let me let you in on a little secret - no man cares about your 7 lbs. Seriously.
I've been underweight and I've been overweight. I can guarantee you, at no point in my life has a man looked at me and thought "damn, if only she didn't have those extra 7 lbs. I'd find her attractive". Even my ex-husband who was a bit of an OCD weight Nazi would not have noticed a measley 7 lbs.
In fact, what I've noticed in my post-divorce dating life - during which my weight has fluctuated over a rather large range - is that I actually got more male attention when I was heavier than in my marriage - most men like voluptuous curves, go figure!
So try just owning those seven extra pounds. It's fine to try to lose them if it really matters to YOU - but don't make the mistake of thinking it matters to men. They probably prefer you as you are now.
