Occasionally I post an update. Things never truly end when you have a child.

X is alone and clearly struggling financially as well as health-wise. He's basically spent the last few years in a very miserable state.

At this point, I am realizing that his situation will affect D. I don't want D to have to deal with consequences of her dad's foolishness. Sooo...I offered to help him. I made some recommendations to him to help him get back on his feet. He did actually listen to what I said.

I am past the point of wanting to see things go badly for him. I even hope that he will meet someone.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D