Occasionally I post an update. Things never truly end when you have a child.
X is alone and clearly struggling financially as well as health-wise. He's basically spent the last few years in a very miserable state.
At this point, I am realizing that his situation will affect D. I don't want D to have to deal with consequences of her dad's foolishness. Sooo...I offered to help him. I made some recommendations to him to help him get back on his feet. He did actually listen to what I said.
I am past the point of wanting to see things go badly for him. I even hope that he will meet someone.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D