My lovely kind friend, I was so delighted when I learned you have treasure in your life, a lovely beautiful lady to gladden your heart. You deserve so much, is it 9 months already? Time flies.
It makes my heart hope for my tribe, that each one will become who they need to be and find peace and happiness.
My date went well, I measured this young man was vulnerable and lonely. So whilst I can offer friendship and dating (even with benefits) that would not be wise of me.
I was surprised at your observation on looks, mainly because it makes no sense. The only reason I can think is that others present the best of themselves, wanting to be chosen. In real life that will unravel. I am aware that I photograph well, that (at least when I am slim!) that slightly glamorous film star quality that photographs well. Not like glam sis who is as glamorous in photos as she is in life. But well enough, I think to pass for whom I am, although I guess guys might be disappointed in my slightly eccentric appearance.
I have had two dates since, one guy was pleasant enough but no real spark and he had little interest in much other than TV. The second guy was more interesting but he wasn't interested in me really. He spent our hour telling me about his ex. When he rang to make another date, I said "you are still in love with your ex, you aren't free to date". He agreed, although he said she has moved on. I said you will too in time. His ex was a WAW and he did nothing to repair his R, he just let her go, he discovered the loss of R was his neglect after she had gone 6 months. He wants that back and has not worked his stuff. Such is heart break.
This is a journey for me an interesting one after all. So far three very pleasant coffee dates but these guys were met IRL so no surprises on the "you are not like your picture" front.
I am resting now on the dating front as I have two exams to come and a busy social schedule. Glam sis is flying to a wedding in Thailand from Gatwick, Bestie has her 70 birthday, and another close friend has her H in hospital.
Besides I have 7lbs to loose to look much better than I do (with kit off). But still YM35 saw me in a swim costume and was not put off, a big step for me.
I know I will not be that far behind you on the dating front.
Enjoy your lady RD, I have my bag of rice ready and I need a hat.
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
