Quote Tim: "I will no longer be waiting around wondering if "she is ready", I will be finding out." I like this idea but it can only work if you can take the constant rejection. One danger could be that delaying by a day could become a habit which could easily move to delaying for a couple of days etc. knowing the LD way of thinking. It could be W is reacting to your differentiation by building a new barrier (day's delay) thus resulting in a new gridlock position.
Both you and I know that your sister would greatly benefit from this forum but you'd be wise not to suggest it given the level of detail you provide in your posts! SD
