How are you doing this week? I hope you won't stop posting.
My advice about going to sports events and doing things as a family should stop, until she ends her affair. The same advice for holidays, traditions, and special events. As long as she is contacting OM......you will not join her or show special recognition to her on special events. Do you understand why? It is not b/c you want to punish her or b/c you are angry. It is b/c a wayward wife will not respect her H if he does all these things while she is in an affair with another man. She should not have both family activities and affair activities.
BTW, you should see your children and take them to do things without inviting the W. You can support their activities without going with your W.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
