There was a POW before we were married, about 4 years into our relationship. So this is why I could see all the signs leading up to another.
Sorry, should clarify, there was a confirmed PA with a OW 4 years into the start of our relationship. It was at work, his was friendly with a female coworker, and one day it turned physical. This is my fear with the current situation. It’s the same in that he treats this female coworker differently than the others. And the fact that he creates lies and deletes her messages... but doesn’t for other female coworkers...
