to be clear, when I said "and I'm still standing" I do NOT mean that I'm standing for my marriage.
It's over.
My guess is that x will marry OW b/c - why not? He cannot be alone, it would take so much work for him to change and make amends to the kids, or me...
much easier to "start fresh" and lose us...as he has.
He was willing to take the chance of losing his family to live in Alaska, for whatever reason (and that was before OW, too).
Now he won't be alone (which he detests). So yes, it's over.
And I'm alright. Depersonalizing it has helped immensely.
It's NOT very complicated, but it is very hard.
takes work, which you and I and many others around here, are willing to do.
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M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
