Anyway we still have zero communication besides brief texts about the kids, this is so frustrating!!!
It is frustrating, but even if you drew her into a convo it would not go how you want it to.
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I knew things weren't going to fix themselves overnight but i thought 6 weeks apart with little to no contact would at least help her to get rid of the animosity and anger toward me...but no she still short with me when she speaks, still wont look me in the face
I know 6 weeks seems like forever, but we're not kidding when we say this is a marathon. It could be a year or more before she comes around.
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I really don't know what to do? Should i continue to not initiate contact?
Yes.
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i just want to know where her heads at?
You already know that.
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I've had some really lonely nights these past few weeks, the uncertainty of this separation is driving me nuts.
I assume by uncertainty you mean you're wondering if/ when she'll come back. That's not likely to happen for quite some time, so take a deep breath and settle in for the long haul! This takes a ton of patience.
