I confronted W for my piece of mind. I knew that if I tucked it away I would be driven to snoop and I don't want that.

If she has something to hide it will reveal its self eventually, right?

In the meantime, my objectives will be much less tainted by any obsessive suspicions. At least for awhile.

When she was in the confirmed EA, she showed several changes that don't currently exist. In anticipation of meeting up with her OM. She was working out and buying new clothes etc. That is not currently going on. She is not slick enough to hide something like that, she would just excuss that change of behavior as she wanted to feel good about her self or it's Spring and Summers around the corner etc.

M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.