He hasn’t said why he is sleeping downstairs. He doesn’t sleep well anyway. This last week has been OK - I have had 2 evenings out (GAL) and when in the house together we have chatted loads (nothing about us). His eldest son is visiting in a couple of weeks and he talked about us all doing something together - a few weeks ago I would not have been included in this. He is also letting me know if he’s going to be late home from work etc. such a change!
This evening we watched tv together and chatted about some funny times in the past - it was really lovely to reminisce (he started the conversation). Then we’ve both gone our separate ways to bed. I want to reach out to him but I don’t want to blow it as since December we have come so far. I just really need a hug - but don’t want to push him too far.
M: 17 T:17 Me:42 H:48 BD 23/12/2017 H says ‘I don’t want to be married’ D 17 D 15, D 13, S 10, S 10