Sorry for the lack of updates...i was just promoted at work so my schedule has been crazy as of late.
It's been about 6 weeks since W moved out...i stated in my earlier posts that W had no furniture and appliances, well she finally got those about 2 weeks ago, the kids have been staying with her 2 nights out of the week. They never stay on the weekend ( my W goes clubbing with her sister almost every weekend)
Anyway we still have zero communication besides brief texts about the kids, this is so frustrating!!! she literally refuses to have any sort of adult conversation with me. She will come pick the kids up and won't even speak to me. I knew things weren't going to fix themselves overnight but i thought 6 weeks apart with little to no contact would at least help her to get rid of the animosity and anger toward me...but no she still short with me when she speaks, still wont look me in the face
I really don't know what to do? Should i continue to not initiate contact? i just want to know where her heads at? Our D12 says she feels uncomfortable at her house, she said that when she's over there all W does is text/talk on phone. I've had some really lonely nights these past few weeks, the uncertainty of this separation is driving me nuts.
A mutual friend told me that she said she still loved me and wanted to salvage the M. She hasn't expressed anything to me, i know she may just be blowing smoke but it gave me some false hope i guess. On the upside i just started my own personal therapy last week and i just received the DR & DB books, so hopefully i can find some answers
