I don’t understand this attitude — that if it hasn’t happened yet, it won’t. ???? I had coffee, professionally, with someone who divorced at 22 and remarried at 42. She’s beautiful. It just took that long for her. She’s been married now for 13 years and has a great relationship with her husband. But in the time that she was single, she built a nice career for herself, raised her two kids, got degrees... She kept busy. She said that there were times when the kids were young that she’d go to school events and see all the families with two parents sitting around her, and she’d feel kind of badly about it, but at the end of the day, she now has a beautiful life that’s full of adventure (she told me about it), a career she enjoys, the financial security of having provided for herself, and a great husband who was apparently worth the wait.
Why don’t we all assume that will happen for us? ESPECIALLY you, GB! Do you really know what you want, or is what you think you should want fighting with what you really want?
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
