Yeah, HP, and scares me too. I guess I really AM afraid that you and mojo are right, and I really don't want to think that, but one thing you ARE right about is that she and I need to talk about this, and in a loving way, and I already have that in the plan. Another change in me is that it's not going to take a week for me to "get around" to having that conversation, either - it'll happen tonight. She cannot have missed that this is my main focus at the moment, and that I need it to be HER main focus as well. Yes, she has 1001 things on her mind, and that's okay, but US also needs to be on her mind at this point, and the willingness to do something about it...
