Talked to W yesterday, and told her that I was no longer willing to live like this. Gave her one last chance to move back home to work on things. Explained to her that we needed to go to MC and she would need to get IC or rehab to deal with her substance abuse issues and personal issues. Told her she would have to quit the bartending job as well. If not, I will be filing for divorce. This is no idle threat, I am ready to do so because her current behavior and actions are toxic. The kids and I do not need to be around it. She was nearly speechless. She tried to convince me that she should still get her own place and we should date. I informed her that W the bartender is not someone I am interested in dating and her current lifestyle is very unattractive. I have a lot to offer and she can take it or leave it. She said she would let me know today. I told her that was fine, but that I was very serious about what I said...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019
