J9, I wish I were so lucky. She lawyered up, so I had to. Also, now there are going to be areas of disagreement, like the 55/45 split that I'm sure her lawyer prompted her to ask for that are going to complicate things and make our lawyers rich.
Are you still working on R or have you completely given up? If you still hope to R, then be accommodating during the divorce proceedings. Kill her with kindness. She won't know what hit her.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018