XW getting married tomorrow

[mvg]

In the past, I've tried the set time thing, but it's been hard for me to get it right to the minute being alone with the kids. It's hard getting S7 and S4 to sit down in front of a phone right at an exact time. When it's been a few minutes past, (like 2 or 3 minutes) she will continue calling, texting and emailing that I'm "late for our agreed upon time."

I'm hoping that I won't have to defend myself, factually and non emotionally every day with a response to her documentation. I can't live this way