Sorry for your sitch. Some of it seems similar to mine. You'll get a lot of good advice on here. Yes, you will also stumble, backslide. Just pick yourself up and keep going.

Good luck.

Originally Posted By: Gordie
She was trying for a long time.

Finally she drops the bomb and you started changing.

It’s too little, too late in her mind and extremely frustrating.

MWD has written and recorded videos on this. Very common.


This is me right now, my H believe too little to late, but he is not moving forward with D either. He recently moved out, told me on Valentine's Day he would date other people to see if there was someone out there that can give him what he needs. That one still stings.

Me-44,H-44
S21,S19,S17,D13
M-22,T-29 (off and on prior to M)
BD:12-20-17 (H said he had things to work out in his head)
H moved out:3-4-18