She was trying for a long time.

Finally she drops the bomb and you started changing.

It’s too little, too late in her mind and extremely frustrating.

MWD has written and recorded videos on this. Very common.

Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving