updating:

GAL: running has increased and I am now running a steady 6 days a week. As previouly stated joined a running club.

I was accepted into social club and will be inducted in April.

Re-joined my dart team and we play every Tuesday night. This has been the best move I have made so far.

As far as the D, everything has gone to a snails pace, W's Lawyer will not return calls and has not spoken to my lawyer since feb 5th. At this point I want the D to proceed and this delay is making matters worse.

I did set a boundry yesterday and I did it calm and cool, I asked W to stop direspecting me in front of our children and their boy/girl friends. She was asking me a question and then would ignore me and turn her back on me. I stated that I will be calling her out on this in front of the kids if it continues. She claims she didnt realize what she was doing, so I said now we are clear.

I sent out an email to W's family yesterday telling them what is going on that W filed for D and everything is in Lawyers hands. I asked that they tell MIL gently. I got back the usual response, sorry to hear is there anything we can do? I said thank you but no, this is W's decision... I just want them to know why I will not be at family functions.


M:52 W:49
D:26 S:24 S:23 D:20
ILYBNILWY 5/28/17
Still living together
W filed 1/5/18
W moved out 8/24/18
D final 9/18/20