I answered that I am CURRENTLY not talking to or seeing anyone.
See the above correction. And yes, should have left it at that. He'll ask again I'm sure. Next time just say this and move on. Don't get drawn into a convo about it.
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He can't seem to go more than 24 hrs without reaching out to me. I know it doesn't mean anything, but why does he do that?
Because he wants you to hang on as Plan B while he does whatever the hell he wants to. He needs that safety net in case his plans come crashing down. But here's the thing, as long as you hang on as Plan B he'll never want you to be anything more. Get out. Get a life. Make yourself the spouse only a fool would leave. Stop all pursuit. Leave him to the mess he's making. When he temp checks you, DO NOT tell him you're sitting around waiting for him. Quit putting up with his crap! YOU are the prize, not him. First you need to realize that. Then HE will realize it. I can't tell you how many women have come here in your exact same sitch, and patiently waited while their WAH sowed his wild oats. It's not until they get fed up and kick him out of their lives that the WAH suddenly realizes what he really needs was there all along. Unfortunately for them, usually by the time they figure it out and come back begging and pleading, the LBW doesn't want them back.
