Thanks for the advice Steve85 and JujuB.

I think popular psychology has it dead wrong. Read a book...... Research shows that in most situations children grow up healthier (as adults) in troubled (not abusive) marriages than in divorced families. The key is "grow up." The immediate effects of divorce might be helpful but the long term impacts are significant.

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