What were problems in your MR? WAW says she is no longer in love with me, we are not compatible because we disagree on politics at times, I'f she know me better she would not have gotten married to me, I'm too negative, would lose temper and storm out of room or leave house for biz trip, not there enough with her and the kids to help. These all came out in marriage counseling about 2 years ago, after which we seperated, for 3 months, and reconciled right before our 1 1/2 year was born.Separated again 6 months later and have been separated since.
Is W allowing you to split equal time? Because I split time between two states because of previous marriage and two kids living there, and while I can be in her state, I cannot afford to live by myself because of house payment in other state. SO she lets me stay in house because I have to fly and pay for hotel; but only for 7 days per month.
Follow up meeting with lawyer? Not yet, but away of my rights and normal visitation as father. A bit hard for visitation because kids are 3 and 1 1/2 and breastfeeding.
W living in house? Yes, in her state. She got the house before marriage so in the state it is her property. Have to ask attorney on that.
What I meant on living with fam members? W's brother and sister in law offered for me to stay there instead of hotel when i am not in home for 7 days.
Sandi's rule? I think W has PPD and MLC, due to changes in behavior. Wanting them to talk to her to try to convince her not to divorce and to get help to really ask her to give us a try. I have good relationship with parents and family members.
Parents? Her parents live in her house and support with daycare etc.
YEs, same signs as last time, but now W is saying wants divorce versus only separation. HEr reasons to divorce also change all the time.